qemu: hostdev: Introduce qemuHostdevUpdateActiveDomainDevices()
This calls the PCI-, USB- and SCSI-specific functions just
like qemuHostdev{Prepare,ReAttach}DomainDevices() already do,
and was the missing piece for the qemuHostdev API to nicely
mirror the virHostdev API.
Update qemuProcessReconnect() to use the new function.