cgtop: Do not rewrite -P or -k options
    
    --recursive=no will overwrite possible -P or -k option hence making the
    recursive disabling impossible.
    
    Check what counting types the system supports (encoded in the ordering
    of our enum) of and pick whatever user requests but is also supported.
    
    Fixes: #25248
    (cherry picked from commit 48600b3524afe05d0faa8a5c88b5aaa53b801199)